05/07/2013, 11:00am CDT
As Published in Minnesota Hockey
By Aaron Paitich, Touchpoint Media
All parents play a large part in their children’s development, growth, successes and failures. That’s the way it should be. But when it comes to hockey – and every other youth sport – leave the coaching to the coaches.
Former Minnesota Wild captain Wes Walz knows how much parents want their kids to succeed.
“That’s the one thing that I’ve found more than anything else, is how much every parent loves their children,” says Walz, who coaches the East Ridge girls’ high school team and has been involved in the youth hockey world in Minnesota for more than a decade. “We all love our kids beyond belief. We want them to do well.”
But when parents take a step too far, it can be harmful both to the child’s development and overall hockey experience.
Walz is in a unique position. He has kids in several sports at different ages and skills levels. With 277 career NHL points and coaching experience at all levels, he also possesses unique expertise. No matter what, he’ll let the coaches of his kids’ teams do their job.
“I will always defend coaches,” says Walz. “I’m as positive as I can be. I don’t rip the coaches to the kids and pollute their minds. That’s a bad situation. Drop the kids off. Let them go play hockey and figure it out. Let them freely and socially hang out with their friends and learn all those life lessons and everything will be good.”