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The Four Pieces to the Division I Puzzle: Hot Mama

By Tony Scott, 04/19/14, 11:00AM CDT

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An engaged parent (or parents) key to D1 future

It is well documented that a good looking woman, a puppy, or a monkey helps sell a product...or in our case grab attention.  In this case our Editor thought it would be fun to suggest in his headline that the key to a Divsion I scholarship is having an attractive (hot) mother (mama). 

This however is not even close to a factual statement, but it is our opinion that having a parent that has the right temperature toward their child's hockey is a necessary evil in today's development of a hockey player.

Unlike most sports, hockey takes a tremendous commitment from a parent...time, energy, money and some rink smarts as well. I'm not saying that other sports don't, but if a kid wanted to be a D1 (insert sport) player, he could likely get there by playing that sport in the neighborhood long enough until his talent was recognized. That option is not realistic in hockey. 

There is no such thing as park or pond hockey for kids anymore (there never was for kids in CA, FL, TX) and most important, learning to skate must happen at age 5, 6 or 7 years old for any future success. So, if hockey is the route for a kid, a parent with the right temperature (passion, time, money, etc) is vital for a kid to make it to the State U hockey team.

3 Scenarios

The typical three scenarios exist for most kids in America. Single Mom, Married Parents, or Separated parents. We take a look at how each can affect a player's growth in hockey.

Single Mom: yes, there is such thing as a single dad, but reality is there are a lot more single moms in this country than dads. A lot more! That being said, most single moms likely have bigger battles to wage than getting their son or daughter to a camp, clinic or practice. It's hard enough with two parents to do it, with one...sometimes it can be trying. Couple that with all of the trials and tribulations that go with hockey politics, off-season teams, camps, clinics, coaches, etc the task of being a single hockey mom is TALL. I've seen many that have pulled it off, but I can assure you, it wasn't easy.

Married Parents: the ideal situation for most players looking to hit the next level. However, there can be challenges. One parent is usually more into the hockey than the other or in some cases they are both really into it. Worst case scenario is neither takes an active interest...this scenario is a likely death blow. Probably the best scenario is when the mom (see headline) is really into it. 

Separated Parents: This is a tricky one. Again, nothing is impossible, but a fractured house generally fractures a kid's chances for hockey success. If both parents are on the same page hockey-wise, just like a Married house, the kid has as good a chance as any. If mom (usually the case) is not on the same page as dad hockey-wise, things can get ugly for the kid's chances. We have seen plenty of successful players come from Separated Parents, but the common denominator is the Mom.

Common Denominator

So I started the article with an apology about the headline. But the headline is true. A player must have a mom who has a high temperature for hockey (or sports in general). Her looks still don't matter.

An active dad in sports is almost a given. In all three scenarios we discussed, the mom is a likely make or break parent figure to a kid's success at the next level in hockey.

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